Bathtime fun!

Many women are quite familiar with using their first couple of fingers to stimulate their clitoris with repetitive rubbing or circling motions. Once old enough to purchase adult products, many women also use vibrators or dildos to change things up a little. However, here’s a technique that you might not have heard of or tried.

A warm bath or shower can be stimulating to begin with. And why not? The skin is the largest sexual organ we have, so taking a hot relaxing shower can become arousing. Though you might have heard comments about pulse settings on showerheads, unless you can detach your showerhead, it’s probably quite difficult to get the water stream anywhere near your clit. Standing on one foot in a slippery tub in order to have an orgasm seems both exhausting and even dangerous (please! Protect that amazing head of yours!) Also, you might have found that the stream is not always strong enough or consistent enough to bring you to orgasm.

However, there is an easy way to have an amazingly strong orgasm (and sometimes a series of orgasms, even if you’re usually a one-orgasm woman like myself) in the bathtub. As far as effort goes, all you really have to do is lay down. No humping, balancing, or finger-cramps. A great way to relax at the end of the day. So, I’m sure you’re wondering what it is! In short, it’s basically like taking your clit on a vacation trip; to get up close and personal with Niagara-Falls.

Instructions:
1. Turn on the bathtub and get it to a desirable temperature.
2. Don’t put a plug in the drain. If your tub drains quickly, go ahead and plug it for a while, but don’t fill the tub. Having few inches of water in it to keep you warm and wet is great, but too much limits access to your genitals. You can reach orgasm before the tub fills, but it’s more fun to just let it drain and keep playing.
3. Once the level of water is a few inches and the water is just the right warm but not-too-hot temperature, get into the tub and lay on your back with your feet up against the wall or over the edge of the tub. Test the temperature by splashing the water in your genitals to see if it’s too hot before this next step.
4. Slide your hips down so that your vulva is underneath the tub faucet. Bend and spread your knees or place your legs so that the water is coming directly from the faucet to your vulva and not landing on your thighs first. You should pretty quickly discover that the flow of water is stimulating to your genitals. Be careful putting your clit under too much hot water right away. If you are not already aroused it can be an uncomfortable amount of pressure.
5. Get comfortable, shift your hips around. It can be a pleasurable or interesting sensation to open your vagina to the water stream and let the water fill it and rush around inside, filling you even more than a penis or sex toy. However, be aware of your body because this can reduce the acidity of the natural vaginal environment and disrupt normal microorganism balances. Besides, the real focus of this activity is definitely the clit.
6. If you are getting excited enough that your clit has gotten erect, you are ready to get your clit is centered under the water stream.
7. Now, take a few fingers from both hands and spread your lips so that your erect clit is fully exposed to the water stream. If the pressure is too much, you can relax your fingers so that your labia can partially cover your clitoris. Adjusting the tension you are creating with your fingers is the way to manage the amount of stimulation.
8. Think dirty thoughts. Excite your mind and body by imagining whatever makes you the most excited. As your arousal builds, the sensations will get more and more intense. You can move your hips or fingers slightly to vary the pressure more than the normal variations in faucet flow, but when you are getting close to orgasm, it may be the most exciting to find a spot and stick to it, letting the rush of the pounding water do all the work.
9. Have an orgasm! Keep your clit under the stream during your orgasm to extend the orgasm. If you keep your clit there until you can’t take any more pleasure, your orgasm can out-last you! If you momentarily interrupt the water to come down from an orgasm, but then actively continue fantasizing and let the water come down on your clit again, you can start the cycle over again, depending on your level of arousal or practice in having back-to-back orgasms.

Enjoy! If you have questions or comments, please feel free to e-mail me or leave a post!